An article posted today at Business Insider (reposted from The Guardian? I can't quite tell.) provides a close-in view of the personal side of a scientific career from the perspective of a self-described (male) "trailing spouse"
. Over the long course of scientific training--before that long-sought permanent post--that trailing spouse developed a life: a business, a house, a garden, kids--and doesn't want to leave. Unfortunately, the wife's fellowship is ending and there are no permanent research posts locally. The author describes her as a "world-class researcher"; apparently she has prepared for the kind of career that you can only consummate by going where the jobs are. Sticking around near where your partner works just isn't a realistic option. The comments
are definitely worth reading. They reflect a lack of sympathy that scientific dual-career couples may find surprising.